I can’t find that one post but
yeah make up and heels don’t smash the patriarchy
conforming to patriarchal sex-based norms isn’t radical
doing what the patriarchy expects and wants you to do isn’t furthering feminism
wear make up, wear heels, do whatever, but critically analyze why and realize that it’s not a feminist act and never has or will be.
Pretty sure feminism is about the right to choose how to live your life without being judged. This sounds kind of like internal misogyny, “don’t be like other girls, they’re shallow and vain because they wear makeup “
Wearing heels doesn’t make you less of a feminist, your actions or lack thereof determines that.
Standing up for people, calling out micro-aggressions, signing petitions, listening to less privileged peoples stories! These are the things we should be talking about, not people’s aesthetic choices.